Thursday 10 January 2013

REASON WHY MEN CHEAT


DISCLAIMER: This post is JUST AN OPINION, i do not support cheating or encourage straying but i intend on making us understand certain things we choose to ignore or deny. Alot of people wont agree but then... Please do enjoy reading this


People still wonder why men stray from a perfect relationship and settle for something less presentable to the outside world, why men would give up a loyal girl and chase after loose women, why men would ruin a perfect happy relationship for a meaningless fling or crush?? This is not because he does not have what he truly wants or that he is not truly satisfied but because it is man's nature to always sometimes want more, be adventurous and want to try something new. A careful research explains why most men stray because of the unending war between old pussy and new pussy.  Let me break down the terms for better understanding. Old pussy refers to pussy that is loyal, pussy that you are used to, pussy you are accustomed to, pussy you have been wifeyng up for a period of time, old pussy refers to pussy that would not embrace new techniques because of the comfort of old good techniques and sticking to it. Old pussy which is also known as the loyal pussy would put her man's happiness first, patient enough to deal with his drama and the bullshit that follows from his reaction to his bruised ego, cater to his everyday need, place him first before others, always supportive of his decisions even when they sound unrealistic, now this makes you wonder any man with a woman/girl that has all these qualities consciously throws its all away by going for new pussy also known "forget about me after the deed is done". Old pussy sometimes does not welcome change because they already know how it ends from the beginning and they are fine with it, there is hardly any excitement. Old pussy sometimes does not need teasing and as such you do not get to enjoy it with every given opportunities. Old pussy is predictable and sometimes a prude.
New pussy comes in different forms; the new girl at the office, new neighbour, new member of your association or club, the sexy lonely girl dancing in the club, the new girl you met on the train, at the airport, shared a cab with. New pussy is anything that is not old pussy. New pussy is adventurous and would definitely do all the things that old pussy would not do. New pussy is willing to try controversial styles and position just to please you. New pussy comes with it disadvantages, though the thrill comes from the chase, new pussy can be hard to satisfy because of their constant insatiable need. New pussy cannot be tamed. New pussy is not ride or die like old pussy, new pussy never stays loyal; they only have one aim, give you something new. New pussy never last because with time new pussy turns into old pussy and the search for a fresh new pussy begins taking you back to where you started from, having an old pussy to chill with. They say it is a man's world, which i strongly disagree and most recently a famous pop star had the rest of the world believing girls rule the world 
I absolutely do not agree with this and neither am i saying its a man's world but i do not deny the effect a new pussy has on a man and HOW it affects his world in general, a bit contradictory but if we are honest, nobody wants to manage old things we have or own, there is a constant need for renewal. We all want new things. Citing the fashion world as a reference point, no matter how much you love your old favourite pair of denim pants, you can not help but not want a new pair, though there is a sentimental attachment to the old pair, a new denim would not hurt a bit. Even love cannot stop the transition from old pussy to new pussy.... a loving happy relationship can not either, we are all fighting a battle. Some people are good at controlling their transition process and stay committed to old pussy but you cannot deny that in your heart, there is no desire to try something new. And this does not affect men alone, every now and then, a woman would crave for a new cock though comfortable with the old special kind of cock that would probably make her cum several times in a row (good luck to those who are truly gifted), but it cannot be compared to trying a new cock completely different from the loyal committed cock they are used to. A battle of NEW vs. OLD. When i say love cannot stop the transition to new pussy, i mean love can not act as a bullet proof to wade off the desires of having new pussy. New pussy knows how to get you in a tight corner or spot; working late or just having lunch that turns into a daily routine, watching movies at the cinema. New pussy understands your weakness, embraces it and provides temporary solace and comfort. Ever wondered how come it is only when you are not in good terms with your significant other, a new pussy is just lurking around the corner ready to pounce on you the attention you so bad crave for. Few men really intend on staying committed to their loyal pussy but they lack the proper tactical skills on how to say NO to new pussy offered on a steak with extra gravy. We understand that sometimes it baffles our mind as to how a man would creep on his model like girlfriend with someone less deserving, the truth is new pussy may not be entirely beautiful, perfect, sexy, a fashionista, eloquent. New pussy just feels "NEW". A loving relationship is not a magical force field that protects you from new pussy. So how do we deal with this new pussy pandemonium?? a lot of (okoro's) young brothers be getting married so they stay committed and not stray but usually that does not work because new pussy has no respect for commitment, marriage, relationships, soul mates. New pussy is toxic and an also addictive. Posing as a relieving aid to get us off that edge of frustration or boredom. The key here is discipline. Not necessarily the ability to cut yourself off people, isolating yourself to a circle of few friends you can trust, that does not help either. New pussy can come in different forms, even the friend you really trust. Point blank, any pussy you have not had yet, is a new pussy. 
Discipline is the key, the inexplicable strength to walk away empty from a room full of gold. Discipline does not deny the existence of new pussy, it accepts the reality of new pussy coming in different forms with practical situation that is almost impossible to walk away from. Discipline helps you control the urge, it helps with not acting on your desire to want new pussy not because you can not have it if you really wanted it but because you DO NOT NEED IT! Hence it is of no value to you. Oh and if you so bad crave for some new pussy, try spicing up your old loyal pussy with new tricks, techniques, go on sexual retreats.. it is a technical process known as pussy conversion. Try something new!  Peace!